Finding An OB/GYN In Brooklyn

I have lived in Brooklyn 10 years but would go back to Long Island where I grew up, for that once per year dreaded gynecological exam. I figured my commute east for these office visits would bite me in the ass some day, but there a million things more comforting than having to find a new gynecologist.

Good times at the gyno

So when I found out I was pregnant, the first thing I did was look up doctors who were close by where I lived. I knew there would be many appointments in my future and I wasn’t working, so being in walking distance of the doctor’s office was important to me.

That’s when I met Dr. Scott Postell at Long Island College Hospital. After some further testing confirmed my pregnancy, he fed me his credentials and shpeel on the thousands of babies he’s delivered and assured me that a merger with SUNY Downstate Medical Center would not hinder my birthing plans. He spoke in layman’s terms often, but he had a personable quality that made me more at ease about exposing my vajayjay. Plus, the walk to his office was only five minutes from my home.

We were fortunate to have a hospital in our neighborhood and thus it felt it was only right to have our baby in the community we loved and lived in for so many years. It was decided. We would have our baby with Dr. Postell at LICH. All of a sudden I was having visions of walking (or waddling) myself to the emergency room when I went into labor!

Long Island College Hospital in Brooklyn, NY

Of course I made this decision before I did my homework and combed the web for reviews. Turns out the message boards were ripe with negativity about giving birth at LICH. One woman wrote in the comments to an article about births being down at LICH that she wouldn’t let her dog give birth there. Well if you read this blog then you know how I feel about people who think their life has greater value than that of an animal’s.

But there were also comments from moms who had great things to say about giving birth at LICH. Like the woman who was in labor 65 hours (yikes!) and called labor and delivery at LICH “top rate.” Hopefully I can second that motion. The top rate comment, NOT the 65 hour labor!

The Barbi Twins Show Some Skin for Skin Trade

The new documentary Skin Trade premieres tomorrow, and who best to promote it but two of the biggest anti-fur activists of our time… the Barbi Twins! Click here to read more…

Justice For The Dogs

As I write, twelve men and women sit inside a glass conference room at the Bronx Criminal Courthouse deliberating the facts and evidence surrounding a dogfighting bust in which eight men were arrested on June 14, 2008. Over the course of two weeks, the jury listened to both the prosecuting attorney and defense attorneys’ arguments, and now the fate of four men — of the eight men arrested, only four (Alexander Estephane, Juan Toledo, Auritz Acoy and Alterik Mason) were tried — is being decided by a jury of their peers.

To read more, click here….

Peaceful protest lead by UA4A outside the Bronx Criminal Courthouse

The Truth About Euthanasia

Please watch this short and very powerful video – even if you already foster, rescue or adopt. There are still many who don’t, so please share this video on your Facebook pages, blogs and websites…

15 Weeks Prego…

Unveiling the bump at 15 weeks and three pounds gained…

Quickening

I woke up from a nap on the couch Friday night, and as I made my way towards the bathroom to get ready for bed I felt it. It stopped me dead in my tracks. I didn’t know what it was at first and described it to my husband Jason as a swooshing sensation through my lower abdomen. Forgetting for a moment that I am pregnant, I told him that I felt possessed, like something was inside of me. He reminded me that something was in fact inside of me! What can I say, I was drowsy.

The bambino is the size of this delicious apple. Yum.

When I looked it up on Dr. Google I found out what I felt is called quickening. American Pregnancy Association describes quickening, or flutters, as the first fetal movements. Wow, is this very surreal or what?!

Laid Off While Preggers

Yes, it’s true. But it wasn’t personal and it wasn’t performance-based.

In 2007 I left a prosperous job at Goldman Sachs to join an Internet start-up. Goldman was intense to say the least and I wasn’t happy. What’s more, I wasn’t writing. I spent 35 grand on a graduate education in journalism and I was writing little more than truncated, abbreviated emails while on the job.

Joining the new company meant taking a bit of a pay cut with no opportunity for a year-end bonus — something that allowed me to build a considerable savings after two years at Goldman. But it was ok. I was happy to do it and eager to see what lay ahead.

The new job was fun, flexible and fast. We had fun on AND off the job, my hours were flexible with a good amount of time spent working from home, and I forged friendships fast. We traveled to conferences in exotic places as far away as Monte Carlo and as close as Boca Raton, Florida.

Some of the fun-loving, party-going gals!

My boss was an entrepreneur who dabbled in many different ventures. The one that generated the most revenue was in financial securities lending. He branched out into the media world in 2008 and was operating in the red by the following year. In May 2009 I was reduced to half-time. The adjusted salary meant I had to scale back on my lifestyle a bit but it also freed me up to explore other passions. The change wound up being a very liberating one and around that time, me and my husband Jason began talking about starting a family.

I stopped taking the pill in late September. By November I was pregnant. The following month I got my first pay check in the mail rather than direct deposit. I remember Jason telling me it was a sign that I would be let go. I told him he was crazy. By January I was indirectly informed by a colleague and friend that my job with the production company, along with dozens of others, had been terminated. Jason was not crazy after all. He knew exactly what he was talking about.

These two will always be in my life. Of that I am sure.

I was almost three months pregnant at the time and had not yet shared the expecting news with anyone other than family. When people close to me learned that I had been terminated from my job, they encouraged me to seek recourse and take action. But that was silly. I was working from home at that point and my boss hadn’t a clue that I was pregnant. It was nothing I did or didn’t do. The company simply did not survive the credit crisis.

Working with the Internet start-up allowed me to get back to my roots in writing. It was the birthplace of many wonderful friendships. It was a great ride and I have absolutely no regrets about taking that job. Pregnancy hormones cast aside, I even wrote my boss an email thanking him for the opportunity. If there is one thing I have learned in the business world it’s to never burn your bridges. It may be cliche, but it’s true.

Lucy’s Journey

Little Lucy’s journey has sure been an eventful one! She was pulled from the city pound in late November, fostered by my friend Sandy until she got over her URI, then fostered by me, then fostered by a great guy in my building named Sam, and then back to me when Sam went out of town.

Lucy looking deceptively calm.

There was a ton of anxiety that came with welcoming the young and rambunctious Lucy back into our home. For starters, I’m pregnant. Second, our own dog Ella has a deadly infection we are in the midst of aggressively treating. And most complicated of all, she doesn’t get along with our two senior cats. But after a few days of “crate and rotate,” our declawed cat Kitty let Lucy know her place in the house! She still gets her butt kicked by the Bug, though, and has the scars on her nose to prove it. The good news is that we are confident that she will not eat them, only chase and annoy them. Phew!

The best thing that came out of taking Lucy back is that I really got to know her and love her and thanks to Facebook, found her an amazing home with a childhood friend of mine who lives in Georgia.

Lucy was supposed to fly down to Georgia last Sunday with the non-profit, Pilots-n-Paws, but the plane on the first leg of her trip had engine problems and never took off from the tarmac in New Jersey. Pilots-n-Paws meant well, but especially in the dead of winter, it was a risk, and the longer Lucy stays with us, the more she is feeling like she is home, and she is not.

Shortly after last week’s failed flight I booked Lucy a ticket on the new airline, Pet Airways. Lucy will leave New York en route to Atlanta, Georgia, this Saturday — and for those of you that don’t know, Lucy won’t be flying in cargo, but in the cabin, with a stewardess and all!

Here are a couple of pictures from Lucy’s non-eventful trip with Pilots-n-Paws…

Watching her plane land.

Boarding the plane that never took off.